career, money

5 obvious ways to save money at work

My job is super average. Decent benefit, decent hours, and low pay. You know, the average, crappy job that a person takes when she has a crazy amount of student loan. So in order to make this “career”Β a little more exciting, I have given myself a challenge Β to try to increase my own pay by […]

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lifestyle, Love

I survived my first experience as a bridesmaid

This past weekend, I had my first experience as a bridesmaid/maid of honor, and I learned that being a bridesmaid is hard AF. There are some things I did well, but for the most part, I am just glad that I didn’t get fired in the middle of the wedding (my friend is too nice). […]

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lifestyle

I tried to KonMari my accessories

If you’ve known me for a while, you know that I am really messy and have a bit of a hoarding problem. And this problem didn’t really bother me too much until I read this book: Since reading this book, I’ve been trying to declutter/live simply for the last year or so, but it’s been […]

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career

Nightmare of eight interviews

During my 9-month unemployment, I applied to over 200 jobs, got dozens of phone interviews, and went on at least 16 interviews (that I recall), and out of that, I am writing about my top 8 most memorable interviews. I am still trying to analyze what the heck I did wrong my 20s — and […]

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health, lifestyle

If my Spanx could talk…

I’m feeling super poetic today.   If my Spanx could talk, it would say to me, “No, I am not a magician, You gotta lose the gut, you fat fool.” If my Spanx could talk, it would invite me to Dr. Phil show and sit on that tall stool and cry, “But I was never […]

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lifestyle, Love

“Friends” you need to drop before you turn 30

In your teens years, it’s unthinkable, and in your twenties, it only happens after a crazy fight/drama, but your late 20’s,Β you begin to make the hard decision of dropping some of your “friends” — aka people who suck the soul out of you, break your hearts, and leave you in ruins. Not saying that you […]

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