health, Life stuff

21 questions while trying to get pregnant

Trying to get pregnant (aka TTC, trying to conceive) brings forth all sorts of crazy thoughts and insecurities to the main stage of my life. I am always a little unstable, so I might as well share with the world all the questions I have in my brain all.day.long. The main one is probably this: […]

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lifestyle, money

Less brunches, more travels

I don’t regret any of the guys I dated in my twenties, but I totally regret not traveling more. Why didn’t I travel more while I looked young and fresh and thin? Of course, my excuse was always that I was broke and couldn’t afford it. But I know what the real reasons were, and […]

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career

4 ways to deal with a hater at work

Here’s me at work. Except Asian. And older. And sadder. Anyway, the reason I hate or love work is never about the work itself — it’s always the people. These days, I just don’t have the emotional bandwidth to deal with assholes and their bullshit. Sadly, to be a functioning adult, sometimes we all have […]

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Life stuff

“How are you doing?”

There is always someone asking, “How are you doing?” in the most annoying way. My first instinct is to hate them, hate the question, and hate the fact that they’re saying it in the most probing way possible. Do you really want to know? I snap internally but don’t say anything. Then there are people […]

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Life stuff

I am still freaking out (aka I am almost 31)

How the hell did I get here again? I am turning 31 in two weeks. OMG. Where did the time go? How did a year go by already? I’ve done nothing with my life, and I am already (almost) 31 years old. Did I actually make my 30’s better in the last year? Did anything change […]

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career

Perks of having a terrible job

However, when I say that I have a crappy job that eats away at my soul, please take me seriously because I mean it. 

But there are upsides to everything, and so here are some things I enjoy about having a job that I hate with all of my heart.

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health, Life stuff

Not the comeback I wanted but…

…here I am. There is no funny GIFs or sarcastic stuff I can say to make this less awkward than it already is. So here it is: I had a miscarriage.  In my post from June, I wrote about how I thought I was pregnant, and how relieved I was to find out that I […]

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