career, Love

How to be confident when life is crap

People often tell me that I seem super confident because I usually look and act like this on the outside: …but the truth is, I often feel insecure and self-conscious; I’ve just figured out how to talk myself out of it quickly when those feelings creep in. Here is what I’ve figured out: People don’t know […]

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lifestyle, Love

PSA: self-awareness is more important than self-love

First, watch this clip; it is literally less than a minute. I love self-confidence and self-love, BUT we, as a generation, need to be more self-aware. I realized that I am a crazy gal with an annoying voice who talk too much and is super self-centered when I was exactly 25.5 years old. It changed […]

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lifestyle, Love

She’s a keeper if…(friend edition)

In your teen years, friends are basically everyone you know. In your 20s, friends are who you go out with and eat brunch with (while hungover) the next day. In your 30’s, things change a bit. There’s just not enough time on your calendar to keep all your friends. So how do you know which […]

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lifestyle, Love

I survived my first experience as a bridesmaid

This past weekend, I had my first experience as a bridesmaid/maid of honor, and I learned that being a bridesmaid is hard AF. There are some things I did well, but for the most part, I am just glad that I didn’t get fired in the middle of the wedding (my friend is too nice). […]

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lifestyle, Love

“Friends” you need to drop before you turn 30

In your teens years, it’s unthinkable, and in your twenties, it only happens after a crazy fight/drama, but your late 20’s, you begin to make the hard decision of dropping some of your “friends” — aka people who suck the soul out of you, break your hearts, and leave you in ruins. Not saying that you […]

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Love

3 types of guys you meet on dating apps

I must admit, I barely remember what dating feels like because I’ve become a fat chihuahua napping on a plush bed (aka happily married). But I awoke my inner lioness (who had a pretty awesome dating career in her mid-20’s. Yeah, I’m bragging) to write this post. So read on. There are 3 types of […]

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